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Canada’s Minister for Sport is reported today (CBC News app) to have declared that there’s a “systemic problem” of sexual violence and toxic masculinity in Canada’s hockey culture that Hockey Canada has failed to address. Pascale St-Onge also said, “The stories that we’re reading about are deeply disturbing and sickening, quite frankly.”
Triggered by one story of members of
Canada’s Junior Hockey Team sexually assaulting an intoxicated woman,
tag-team-wise, an avalanche of stories illustrating the “sexual violence and toxic
masculinity” have surfaced.
Clearly, our Minister for Sport is not
going to let Hockey Canada get away with “a few bad apples” arguments; she’s
using the systemic word which must mean something like this: you’re
organized in such a way and your practices are such that you’re encouraging the
violence and toxicity to happen.
Is that fair? At the local level, sports
programs are generally organized into same-age, same-gender teams. Peer
groups, in other words. It makes sense. Competition needs to be fair. At
the same time, educators know that when a child begins to live a part of life
outside the home, peer acceptance and bonding become powerful forces in his/her/their
development. Add to this a zero-sum competitiveness and the garden may have
been tilled for growing a triumphalist, toxic, sports “militia.”
If this could be proven to be true, then
the systemic part of St-Onge's lament would be self-evident.
And herein lies a dilemma: professional
sports watching is deeply entrenched in Canadian culture. To reorganize
children’s hockey to meet goals of physical fitness and the inculcation of
habits of sportsmanship/citizenship as opposed to competitiveness
considerations, would grate across the sensitivities of thousands of sports
afficionados. The Ministry for Sport can withdraw funding from Hockey
Canada—which it has—until it makes meaningful changes to its practices, but can
do little else.
Sports existed back in the 1950s; I lived
the recess and after school games of softball and soccer, the annual field days
in town, the makeshift ice rinks and ball diamonds. There may have been sandlot
ball in town, but in our one-room country school, all grades and all genders
played; with only fifteen students in Grades One to Eight, peer divisions were
impossible.
We have other models of play, exercise,
sports, beside the Hockey Canada model. St-Onge's reference to systems that
prove harmful is timely; organized hockey must take a hard look at itself.
I haven’t said anything yet about “sexual violence”
or “toxic masculinity,” St-Onge’s words for the side-effects of whatever the
system is getting wrong. There certainly are campaigns to counter feminism; such a campaign is evident in American Evangelicalism’s tendency to prefer a
return to whatever in the Bible supports male hegemony. As to “sexual violence,”
I think that in its debasement, its humiliation of victims, it serves to reinforce
male dominion over females, a practice exacerbated by the peer camaraderie of
the pub, the military, the traditionalist RCMP, etc., and now—according to St-Onge’s
pronouncements—in a sport poorly regulated by Hockey Canada.
I’m far too short of knowledge to expound
on the details of a typical child’s experience going through the levels of minor
hockey programs before arriving at the AA or AAA levels where it gets really
serious, especially for those parents who are pushing their young men toward a
possible professional NHL career. While grooming young men for the remote
possibility of a place in the big time, are we also grooming them
systematically—possibly inadvertently—for an attitude we abhor? That seems to
be St-Onge’s concern and should be a serious consideration for every family contemplating
hockey as a part of their child’s education.